fix: patch metadata and spec during Adopt adoption

[michaelhtm]

Description of changes:
Currently, when adoptionPolicy is adopt, when you call ReadOne
if the resource is found but there is an error (Eg. Resource
is not synced), the Spec fields do not get patched.

These changes ensure if the resource is found, even with errors, we
patch the Spec with latest fields

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ec2-controller-test	86704a8	link	true	/test ec2-controller-test

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