Using non-native transports with SocketOptions should cause an error

[thachlp]

Isssue #3251

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[tishun]

This is an interesting approach, but it does not fully cover the different invariants.

The logic that outputs warnings in the log is in the ConnectionBuilder.java class.

As you can see only io_uring and epoll support TCP_USER_TIMOUT, while io_uring, epoll the extended socket options in Java 11 support TCP_KEEP_ALIVE / TCP_KEEPIDLE and TCP_KEEPINTERVAL.

I was thinking of replacing the log message with the LettuceAssert.assertState that is already used there.

What do you think?